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February 2nd, 2010
02:00 PM ET

We Listen – Your comments 2/2/2010

Editor's Note: Tuesday’s American Morning audience expressed deep concern for Haiti’s orphans. Some who were already in the process of adopting children from the country shared the very thorough vetting process that takes place in order to adopt. Others suggested alternative options to adopting, such as sponsoring children in-country who can stay with loved ones but benefit from assistance.

  • Jennifer: I am a 44 year old single woman who has chosen adoption to start a family. I began this long and complex adoption process in August of 2009. The country I have chosen to adopt from is Haiti; I made that decision over 5 months ago and have followed all of the guidelines and met all of the government requirements to the fullest. I am one of the 900 or so people estimated to be "already in the process" of adopting from Haiti. My paperwork had been scheduled to be sent to the Haitian embassy the week of the earthquake. Adoption is not a quick process; there is a home study process that takes a minimum of 6 weeks; government approval that can take 6-8 weeks; dossier preparation that can take months. There are legitimate people like myself in this world whose lives have been scrutinized, back-ground checked, interviewed, etc. and approved to adopt. It's unfortunate that this small group of people to which I belong are now being lumped in with others "rushing to adopt from Haiti". I have been praying that people like myself who started this process long before the earthquake will not be categorized as people trying to wrest non-legitimate orphans from the streets of Haiti. Before the earthquake there were over 400,000 orphans in Haiti and a great need for international adoption; the country welcomed adoption from the U.S. and other countries. Now it seems that out of valid fears of child trafficking and exacerbated by the naive acts of the church missionaries, all of us trying to adopt from Haiti get a bad name. I'm a single woman who tried for years unsuccessfully to get pregnant through artificial insemination; adoption was the route I chose to have a family and gave me hope for a joyous future. Please remember that there are many of us out there with legitimate hopes and plans to adopt from Haiti. I pray every day that when the country is ready, the Haitian government will again open its doors to legitimate adoptive parents. My choice t o adopt is not out of some sudden humanitarian urge because of the scenes of the earthquake we have all seen on TV. This is my only hope for a family.
  • Susan: Haiti children are beautiful, but here is some food for thought – I have an idea wouldn't it be better to send money to Haiti so families wouldn't have to be broken up. We have these organizations who sponsor children. Let's start sponsoring children over there and send food, clothing and money providing shelter, education etc., instead of having the families broken up. Now, if they have no families I can see adopting them. Those parents over there who gave their children over to these organization wanted them to have a better life and was doing this out of love for their children. Lets help families stay with their own blood families if we can first. Also, we have so many children as well, in the United States who are going hungry let's also help our own. These church organizations or any organization should do more in regards to helping the needy here in the USA and also adopting here in the USA. It they want black kids there are a lot of them here who can be adopted out. It's kind of shameful to see people sleeping on the streets and adults and children going hungry here in America. Let's clean up the homeland first. Sometimes we need to ask ourselves the question why there are so many African Americans and other children not being adopted out.

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  1. Emily W. Ziegler

    As a recent Indepedent, I have a real problem with the pundants who feel that ALL Indepedents are conservative and/or not happy with the Republican Party. I registered as a Democrat in 1962 in Florida. After the last presidental primary I left the party since they wouldn't count my Fla. vote. As far as I'm concerned, no party is liberal enough.....todays moderates are yesterdays conservatives.
    As for the Tea Party People....I use the term people loosely.....The real Boston Tea Party was about "taxation without representation". These fools have representation....they may not like them.....so vote them out.....but calling for the ousting of the President, and comparing him to Hitler is outrageous. I know a retired Air Force Colonel who is doing this, here in the Fla Keys....yet he still draws retirement pay while he calls for the overthrow of his Commander In Chief.
    Citizens may not like the spending habits of our national government but if all internal spending was halted, and they had to depend on their states for all the things the Feds do, they'd be sadly disappointed and without many of the things they take for granted but are too short sighted to see.
    Walking away from two wars is a simple way to stop the run-away spending.....that's throwing good money after bad. The top Generals are trying to justify themselves ....and, it's good job security.
    My father was a Marine aviator for 30 years.....I know very well how political the branches of the service are
    Emily Ziegler
    Key Largo, Florida

    February 4, 2010 at 8:18 am |
  2. 101 sonny

    Tea Party system evolves from early government evouloutions of a Mr Lock. Keep in mind this organization was employed to advance colonal structures of dominance legally thru self authorization, to obtain land from indians. In so much that an individual could fence in an area it would be theirs. This was a process for expansion evolution which in time fell to disfavor as it no longer could be sustained in a majority democracy. Libertianisum remains but fragmented. Systemes would eventually lead to demise. Present day system that could be identified with said system would be imperalisum. Right wing evolution, which ironically is in a negative evolutinal survial status and faces simular retirement scenarios. With that in mind, enjoy the party. A reminece of days gone by. Populace increase of educational qualty, will increase its demise.
    Best To Ya Bernie

    February 3, 2010 at 11:15 am |
  3. Tom Ledford

    I was listening to some of the Tea part commennts on CNN this morming I have come to the conclusion that most of the people are easily excited and believe everything they hear on fox news. I remenber when Democrats used to get the wrap for being uneducated voters . The Tea party demonstrators are mad about the problems of the economy and the bail out but they have no Idea what to do to solve the problem or what would have happened if nothing had have been done about the mess our country was left in by the previous Administration. They are the kind of people would fight over anything and not think things out frist.

    February 3, 2010 at 9:18 am |
  4. Allen Meadors

    Are you serious????!! Bonuses for AIG... no, not no but &%#@ NO. The whole country is in this mess because of behavior just like this. Everyone else has to tighten their belts, AIG should behave no differently.

    February 3, 2010 at 8:35 am |
  5. mike-sey

    Don't you find it curious that a roadside bombing targetting US troops is described as a "vicious terrorist attack" but an attack on suspected insurgents from above with a drone is simply a missile strike? How long will it be before we are told that 'insurgents today were caressed by a lovey-dovey, fuzzy wuzzy drone?

    February 3, 2010 at 8:22 am |
  6. Doug Cross

    AIG still doesn't get it. Perhaps a 300 million person boycott against their products and the products they are involved in would get their attention.

    February 3, 2010 at 8:16 am |
  7. Matthew Eccles

    We have been dealing with no power for 6 days now due to the ice storm that hit Oklahoma last week. Power companies have been struggling to get power restored to most of Southwestern Oklahoma. We need help!

    February 2, 2010 at 2:06 pm |